12 Oct

The Path to True Humility

Recognizing Your Unique Greatness In the pursuit of personal growth and success, the concept of humility often takes center stage.Humble individuals are celebrated for their ability to downplay their achievements, for their modesty, and their unassuming nature. But what if
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31 Oct

The Three Faces of Drama

Our “stories” lead to drama because, while they were prompted by actual facts, they become blended with our prejudices, fears, slights, and wounds from the past.  They stir up feelings that rile us up and for which we blame whoever
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04 May

Are You Thriving?

Change starts by making an honest assessment of your life.  It is easy to get used to your circumstances and to think life can’t be much better than how it is now.  But that is not true.  A very simple
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08 May

Autonomy

Autonomy refers to how you view yourself in relation to others.  If you are high in autonomy you see yourself as fundamentally self-sufficient.  If you have a need, you will take care of it.  If there is something you want,
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01 May

The Sub-Factors of Independence

If you have read The Circle Blueprint or taken The Circle Blueprint Assessment, you know that Independence is composed of six separate sub-factors.  It is only by mastering each sub-factor that you will gain your full independence.  This brief description
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24 Apr

The Circle Blueprint Assessment

Dr. Greg Miller is the wizard who constructed the Circle Blueprint Assessment.  His work is a major gift to everyone who wants to benefit from the wisdom and guidance contained in this system. One of the most difficult parts of
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17 Apr

Big and Little Self

You may never have considered that you have a “big self” and a “little self”.  Everyone does. Your “big self” is courageous, noble and determined to do the right thing.  Immediately after 9/11 thousands of young American men and women
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10 Apr

Accountability

One of the greatest reasons people fail to achieve their goals is that they try to do it all by themselves.  Perhaps it is a matter of pride.  You might not want to admit to friends and family that you
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03 Apr

Gas Pedals and Brakes

Everyone develops habitual ways of interacting with life just as you develop habits in what you eat, how you schedule our time and who you hang out with.  It is easy to get comfortable with your habits and not fully
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27 Mar

The Change Formula

For some reason it seems that most people resist change.  We worry that change will lead to the loss of things we enjoy and value.  Rarely, do we envision change as leading to an even better and more successful life.
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