Civility in Chaos

Civility is defined as courtesy, politeness; a polite act or expression. A few observations about civility:

1. The world works better with more civility.

2. Civility is something each of us can choose.

3. We can choose civility at any moment each day.

Covid-19 is a big deal.  Life, as we have come to know it, has come to a halt.  You and I are staying home, avoiding contact with family, friends and coworkers.  The virus continues to spread and we all hope that doctors and scientists will quickly develop an effective treatment and vaccine.  Until that happens, we all need to wash our hands, stay calm and love the ones you’re with.
 
Crises like this somehow bring out the best in human nature.  Our first reaction is shock.  How can this be happening?  How will I work from home?  Or, if I am laid off from a job that suddenly disappeared, how will I pay my rent or feed my children? 
 
But we can only be shocked for so long.  Once the drama wears off, a different (and better) sentiment kicks in.  Who needs my help?  Who are the elderly and vulnerable people in my community that need groceries delivered to their door?  Where are the local restaurants from which I can order delivery or pick up to try to keep their doors open? 
 
People come together in tough times.  Families who hardly spend any time together are taking walks, playing board games or cleaning up the yard.  Friends are checking in with each other over the phone and video chat.  Companies are shifting from manufacturing their products to make hand sanitizer, face masks and respirators. 
 
America is a great country.  When the chips are down our people know how to stand up and stand strong.  We are proud of who we are, and we pull together to make certain we come through this together. 
 
But it isn’t just about Americans.  Trials and difficulties bring out the best in human beings.  We are reminded that we are in the game of life together.  We put aside competing in order to collaborate in each other’s survival. 
 
Today, let’s celebrate our human spirit and do whatever you can to help your neighbor endure. And when this is over please do not forget the lesson we are all learning about the value of togetherness and community.