Being a Plow Horse or a Reservoir
Taking care of the people who matter to you is important. They depend on you to keep your word, to have their best interest in mind, to provide, and to be reliable. The success of family, friendships, business,…
The quality of a life is shaped by how we listen, speak honestly, receive feedback, and stay connected when relationships become difficult.
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• The world works better with more civility. • Civility is something each of us can choose. • We can choose civility at any moment each day.
Civility: The Power of Seeing Others
Civility is more than politeness or good manners. It is the simple yet profound act of seeing another person—noticing their existence, hearing their words, and valuing their presence.
100 Percent Love. Is it Possible?
In today’s society, it feels as though our divisions run deeper than ever. So many people and communities are feeling fractured and disconnected. Compassion seems to be in short supply, replaced by a growing inability…
The Power of Fierce Conversations
In our everyday interactions, we often find ourselves communicating on a superficial level, often hiding our true feelings beneath a veneer of politeness and people-pleasing. We choose our words so carefully, hoping to…
The Power of “Being Seen” and Embracing Vulnerability
Today, distractions are endless, and our everyday connections can feel superficial. Collectively, there’s a societal preoccupation with “looking good,” especially through the idealized glamour of photo filters and…
Making Real Connections in a Self-Centered World
I have a new friend. He’s 84 years old. And the other day he invited me out to lunch.
Civility and Identity
We have a choice as to how we identify ourselves. You can pick based on gender, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, socioeconomic status, political party, and an almost endless number of other characteristics.
Civility and Grace
Grace is not a concept used much today. One dictionary definition is “courteous goodwill”. The Bible uses the term “grace” in a much more powerful manner. It describes God’s “unmerited favor” toward the world. We need…
Civility and Taking Radical Responsibility
These are such unusual times. A year ago, who would have imagined we would be wearing masks wherever we go, would only be doing curbside dining and all sports and concert events would be canceled? Who would have…
Civility and Getting Past the Need to be Right
We live in a time when many people seem to be committed to the need to be right. They are convinced that their opinion is correct and all other opinions are wrong. The need to be right is a polarizing point of view. It…
Individuality and Civility
One thing that makes America so special is the balance between the rights of the individual and the value of the community. Each of us is guaranteed certain liberties that allow us to pursue our goals and enrich our…
Creating Community Fun
Community must always be about having fun. Fun is an easy concept for children. They have the amazing ability to turn almost anything and everything into fun. They have a natural sense of wonder, amazing creativity and…
Civility in Chaos
Covid-19 is a big deal. Life, as we have come to know it, has come to a halt. You and I are staying home, avoiding contact with family, friends and coworkers. The virus continues to spread and we all hope that doctors…
Community: Let’s Get Creative
We have been focusing on how to build your own community that is vibrant, meaningful and satisfying. First, someone must be intentional. Community rarely arises on its own. Second, rituals sustain community by…
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